A mother of two children who were tragically killed by their father is urging Prime Minister Keir Starmer to prioritize child safety. Claire Throssell, whose sons were murdered during a court-sanctioned visit, addressed members at the Labour Party conference, stressing the need for revised guidelines to eliminate the “presumption of contact” culture.
In a horrific incident in 2014, Claire’s sons, Jack, 12, and Paul, 9, lost their lives when their father, Darren Sykes, led them to the attic of their home and set it ablaze, ultimately taking his own life as well. Claire, from Penistone, Sheffield, is advocating for legal reforms and a thorough review of the family justice system to prevent similar tragedies caused by abusive parents.
She highlighted the flaw in the existing Children’s Act, where judges automatically assume that children benefit from seeing both parents, even in cases of known domestic abuse. Claire emphasized her persistent warnings about the father’s violent tendencies, which tragically went unheeded, resulting in the devastating loss of her sons.
Recent findings by Women’s Aid disclosed that since the tragic deaths of Jack and Paul, 19 more children in England and Wales have been killed by parents or figures with access rights despite a history of domestic abuse. The report exposed the urgent need for a shift away from the prevailing “pro-contact” stance in family courts to safeguard vulnerable children.
Despite the heart-wrenching loss, Claire remains resolute in her advocacy efforts, including the publication of her book, “For My Boys,” and a petition to challenge the pro-contact culture. She is determined to hold the government accountable and ensure that promises to combat violence against women and girls are fulfilled, aiming to prevent further senseless tragedies.
Claire’s poignant account serves as a poignant reminder of the consequences of overlooking warning signs in custody cases and the critical need for legislative reforms to prioritize child safety and prevent future tragedies.

